47 reasons that really hurt
Posted at 04:09 AM

1. Letting go of a person you’ve learned and decided to love

2. Reminiscing the good and bad times you shared together

3. Shielding your heart to love somebody

4. Trying to hide what you really feel

5. Trying to hide the tears that involuntarily fall from your eyes

6. Loving a person too much

7. Giving up someone you never thought of giving up

8. Having the right love at the wrong time

9. Taking the risk to fall in love again

10. Hiding your relationship from someone else

11. Controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend

12. Thinking of him/her every waking and sleeping moment knowing all the while that he/she never even thinks a single thought of you

13.Letting go, because every time you see the person, you only fall deeper

14. Holding back only to find out when its too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn’t let the feelings out

15. Falling in love with someone you didn’t mean to fall in love with

16. Finding the perfect girl/man - with only one problem - he/she doesn’t love you

17. Helping the one you love to court your friend

18. Seeing the one you love crying for someone else

19. The waiting also hurts like h e l l

20. Having to hear … I’ve met someone

21. Agreeing to his/her wish to just be friends

22. Asking him/her freedom back so he/shed be happier with him/her

23. Asking you to forget that everything happened and be normal friends again

24. Hearing that you’re treated as a brother/sister (ouch!)

25. Sharing his/her future plans for the guy/gal with you

26. You stopped being friends cuz his/her bf/gf asked him/her to.

27. Being denied in front of people

28. Telling you lies where he/shed been when actually he/she was with a new friend or an old flame

29. He/she told you he/shed be leaving you to return to his/her ex

30. Breaking someone’s heart

31. Fighting for that one thing that would make you happy

32. That is, holding to a person who can not guarantee you his/her commitment unless he/she fix him/herself - then you are left hanging for the moment - then he/she says, time will tell.. ang labo niya….but you still decided to hope in him/her and trust him/her

33. Pretending you’re ok when inside you’re dying

34. Pretending to be strong and recognizing your weakness lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have

35. Being with someone you cant actually love

36. Pretending you don’t love a person whom you actually love

37. Being in love

39. Seeing the person you love hurt because of you and not being able to help that person

40. Having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and finding out afterwards that things will never be same again when he doesn’t treat you with the same closeness as before

41. Having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you built for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable

42. Admitting that you love someone despite her imperfections

43. Finding out the more you try to hate him/her, the more you end up loving him/her, perhaps even more than before

44. Realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up

45. The thought that this boy/girl used to really love you and you loved him/her as well but you didn’t give enough that she/he gave up on you

46. Sharing the one you love with somebody else

47. Realizing you were only a pill she took for her broken heart..not to satisfy a healthy heart longing for you…in other words being used…